You know that whole, "If your house is on fire and can only grab 1 thing. What would it be?" scenario?
That's a real life scenario for foster kids. Here is the foster kid version of that question, "You can only take to a complete strangers home what will fit in this Walmart sack (or if they are lucky they get a trash bag). What do you take?"
Our first foster child, I will call BH, came to our home with a trash bag and a "Together We Rise" duffle bag.
I helped him 'unpack' his trash sack and found 1 roller skate.
My bio kids asked him, "Why do you only have one skate?"
I overheard his response, "I didn't have time to look for the other one." The tone in which he spoke, literally broke me.
Talk about making me cry. Still gives me the lump in my throat.
To this day the vision of that lonely roller skate by my front door will always remind me of the struggle these kids go through.
When I was 5, 6, 7, 8... Had a stranger come to my home to 'take me' and they had said I could only take a few things, I can't even fathom how that would have felt or what I would have grabbed!
Our new friend, AG, came to us with 2 pairs of jeans, one he was wearing and another that was too big, two shirts, one plain white and one that was too small, two shoes, one pair nice and one pair too big.
He is 6.
One roller skate.
Such an odd thing but will always remind me why we are doing this.